serious question for the women.yeah,more stickie bllx.been thinking.again.i couldn't get off with her if she offered it on a plate.

what does a married bloke say to a mature woman.
yes okay,he shouldn't be thinking that shit.
but how does a married go about asking if she'd like to meet up for a coffee somewhere?

can't just say,
"look!i'm married and i fancy the pants off you".
and not just that.
i really DO like her.

no,
she's probably not interested.
married as well even.

but.

even when she's speaking,
she seems to be in such a hurry.
there just isn't time for that.

talk about moth to the flame.

it's a no win situation.

but if she said no,
surely my having asked would brighten her day,
wouldn't it?
put a smile on her face even?

then i could quietly go and disappear up my own arse.

i'm just gonna leave it and hope that she says something.
but she won't.
i just know it.

life eh?

so what does a bloke say?

"look!
i like you.
i think.
would like to know you better.
maybe.
and i'm a married man.
i'm sorry.
would like to have a coffee with you one monday lunchtime.
think about it? "

well,
mj,
what would you say to that?

if you didn't have a man in your life,
and you were constantly walking dogs to work off all that "pent-up stuff".

man i bet she's fit.

maybe she's married and he works nights.

Her husband wants a word Eric:

yeah,
i know.
it's a thought isn't it.
would have to get in an apology if she IS married.



what's at the back of my mind,
is an aching clitoris maybe,
screaming out for some attention.
y'know?

but women don't do that do they.

for what good the buses are,
she could be living a million miles away.

almost no buses at the weekend.
believe me,it's not possible.

i HAVE to visit my mother every morning,early'ish.
a MUST before 9.00.am.
including weekends.
that would leave mondays,if i could get my arse into gear.
and i'd HAVE to be home pretty early to get sorted for work.

i saw her this morning.
she'd spent some time on herself.
hair looked nice.
ear-rings.
make-up,not over-done.

we're still not speaking though.
i don't think she'll walking by for much longer.
probably a GOOD thing.

wouldn't matter if i DID have the balls to tell her what i was thinking.
i got nothing to lose.
or gain.

might raise a smile.
that's about all.

yup.
it's a thought.

but it wouldn't matter.
cos nothing's going to happen.

erixter wrote:but it wouldn't matter.
cos nothing's going to happen.

nobster,
i simply don't have the time.as appealing as the idea may,or may not seem.

and with my tackle?
at my age?

SEX?

it aint gonna happen mate.