human-nature, women programmed to breed,men?errrrrrrrm,

men,
are just born to fuck.

women,
wanna have kids,
then,
as far as sex goes,
the office is closed.
got no use for it.
bye bye.

how unfair is that?
not having a go at mothers here,
but LOOK!
get real eh?
see the wood,smell the coffee ffs.

a married man fucks around,
i bet a lot of them would just love to be having sex with their wives.

not his fault,
not wifies fault,
it's just the way of things.

and belive me girls,
it's a toughie.

i read a story in the paper once,
some married man had promised a young woman the earth,
to have his way,
he declared undying love,
was gonna leave his wife,
etc.etc.

well,
obviously,
he didn't.
she went after his wife for revenge.

wife's response;
"who's home is he keeping?who's mortgage is he paying?who does he return home to?eventually?you're just a bit of fun,he's had you,and moved on."
or words to that effect.
and shut the door in her face.

BRAVO.

you think about that.

way to go eh?

most marriages hit a rough patch.and there are times when women genuinly dont want sex , we have a lot of hormones that drive us mad,for instance especially after having a baby.but lets face it a lot of men are impatient, they take it personally if you arent giving them the attention they once had.
but I can honestly say ive never had no problem with sex unless after childbirth and when the hubby was being particulary obnoxious.
and its not always the mans fault, but im saying this from a womans point of view.

mg,
it's no-ones fault,
that's my point.

let your man go empty his balls occassionally.

it doesn't NECESSARILY mean that he doesn't love or care for you.
he just needs. okay?

i disagree eric...men are men ok, but it takes the right woman to make them not even want to look elsewhere imo...i`ve been cheated on in the past...its not nice...i`d never cheat on anyone...as mg said earlier...the least you can do is give your partner the courtesy of saying ''you know what, this aint working anymore" and move on!
i have never had a bad breakup, we`ve just drifted apart...so maybe i`ve just had good 'uns...or maybe its because i look at people in a different way...i dont judge people, i have an open mind...and maybe they did too...maybe thats what attracted me to them in the first place....their love of the finer things in life...the things money cant buy...

...either way!...it can be looked at in a number of ways!

it's tough.
maybe men shouldn't marry until they reach 50.

erixter wrote:it's tough.
maybe men shouldn't marry until they reach 50.

erixter wrote:mg,
it's no-ones fault,
that's my point.

let your man go empty his balls occassionally.

it doesn't NECESSARILY mean that he doesn't love or care for you.
he just needs. okay?

and while hes chasing after skirt, his wifes left to cope with the kids.so he is neglecting his family.imo.

sheil,
don't mean to seem crude here but,
you know how it felt to be screaming out for sex,
like climbing the walls,
can't wait for him to walk through that door,
tear his clothes off kind of wanting.
eh?

well,
imagine if he'd said "oh god,i am so tired,can we not do that tonight?"

and he kept ON making excuses,
night after night.

well,
that's what you do to us.

and you can't help not feeling like it,
like we can't help behaving like dogs.

i'm just so glad to be over that stuff.

erixter wrote:sheil,
don't mean to seem crude here but,
you know how it felt to be screaming out for sex,
like climbing the walls,
can't wait for him to walk through that door,
tear his clothes off kind of wanting.
eh?

well,
imagine if he'd said "oh god,i am so tired,can we not do that tonight?"

and he kept ON making excuses,
night after night.

well,
that's what you do to us.

and you can't help not feeling like it,
like we can't help behaving like dogs.

i`m not sure i understand what you are trying to say eric?

i'm saying that you can't possibly know how it feels to be denied something that you are crying out for.

after having enjoyed an active sex life before you were married.

there isn't an answer.
men will just carry on taking mistress's.

tell you what though,
if there was a pill that men could take to nullify their sex-drive,
i would have gladly taken it.

erixter wrote:i'm saying that you can't possibly know how it feels to be denied something that you are crying out for.

after having enjoyed an active sex life before you were married.

i do know actually...ok so i`ve never been married but i guess its the same for long term relationships? after a time it seems to become routine....although i found talking about stuff helps...although its got to work both ways

it can last a lifetime....common interests is a must though imo....i had nothing in common with my ex, which is why we drifted apart i guess

okay,
sorry.