just put my foot in it with the wife.BIGTIME.

was talking about foreigners coming here and getting everything free.

i went on about people getting benefits,
wanting all the latest gadgets,
tellys,
computers,
play-stations etc.

then she says,
"are you having a go?"

what?

lardthing?



ahhhhhhhh fk it,
i'm off t'bed.

is she Thai and you didnt notice

morning_glory wrote:is she Thai and you didnt notice

in other words is she foreign?

no,
lardthing;
on benefit,
got a play-station,
computer,
lots of toys.

has he ever worked eric, does he have any expectations for the future??

Abdul Kowalski wrote:has he ever worked eric, does he have any expectations for the future??

no.

and nil.

the lights are on.
very faint,
but on.

and there absolutely is no-one at home.

ABKO,
he'd sit and watch paint dry.

he is so not like me.

erixter wrote:

Abdul Kowalski wrote:has he ever worked eric, does he have any expectations for the future??

no.

and nil.

the lights are on.
very faint,
but on.

and there absolutely is no-one at home.

ABKO,
he'd sit and watch paint dry.

he is so not like me.

well,
having said that,
we haven't spoken for about,
i don't know,
6?
7 years maybe.

tell him to find a place of his own ffs

she,
he has been so molly-coddled,
for so long,
he couldn't cope on his own.
has absolutely no idea of how to socialise,
AT ALL.
has been totally house-bound since he was about 14.

he'd have no chance.

will end up in some institution i reckon.

erixter wrote:she,
he has been so molly-coddled,
for so long,
he couldn't cope on his own.
has absolutely no idea of how to socialise,
AT ALL.
has been totally house-bound since he was about 14.

he'd have no chance.

will end up in some institution i reckon.

the only way he will learn is if he`s out there on his own...it aint 'normal' to be living with your parents at 21 unless there is a reason for it (i.e. illness etc.)

normal,
he isn't.

he'll be with us until we die i reckon.

erixter wrote:normal,
he isn't.

he'll be with us until we die i reckon.

what IS 'normal' then?

erixter wrote:normal,
he isn't.

he'll be with us until we die i reckon.

she wrote:

erixter wrote:normal,
he isn't.

he'll be with us until we die i reckon.

what IS 'normal' then?

fucked if i know.

you said it.

erixter wrote:

she wrote:

erixter wrote:normal,
he isn't.

he'll be with us until we die i reckon.

what IS 'normal' then?

fucked if i know.

you said it.

look eric....if one of my kids was 21 and still living at home living off benefits and doing fuck all, i`d say something...i guess your wife wears the trousers?

she,
for a lot of years,
she held sway.
a mother with child,
one wrong word and i would have been out on the street,
i couldn't face that.

WIMP?
yeah,
i'll admit that.

so,
i bided my time thinking,
he'll be 18 one day,
she'll lose her power over the situation,
wich she has.
but after 18 years,
i'm a broken man now.
wasn't much of a man to start with.

nothing will change she,
we'll both just get old and die together.

that doesn't stop from wishing.

and even now,
if i had a moan,
she WOULD kick the table over.

nothing would change.

it just aint worth the trouble.

erixter wrote:and even now,
if i had a moan,
she WOULD kick the table over.

nothing would change.

it just aint worth the trouble.

i`d kick more than the table eric...you`d be wriggling on the floor crying...man up eric ffs!

she wrote:

erixter wrote:and even now,
if i had a moan,
she WOULD kick the table over.

nothing would change.

it just aint worth the trouble.

i`d kick more than the table eric...you`d be wriggling on the floor crying...man up eric ffs!

and there you have it.
not man enough.

i just don't have the balls.

that's mostly what i'm running away from.

erixter wrote:

she wrote:

erixter wrote:and even now,
if i had a moan,
she WOULD kick the table over.

nothing would change.

it just aint worth the trouble.

i`d kick more than the table eric...you`d be wriggling on the floor crying...man up eric ffs!

and there you have it.
not man enough.

i just don't have the balls.

that's mostly what i'm running away from.

ffs eric, dont give up

she,
i passed that way a long time ago.

feel as though i was born beaten.

you think i'm enjoying it?

maybe it's just meant to be.

we are what we are.

end of.

erixter wrote:she,
i passed that way a long time ago.

feel as though i was born beaten.

you think i'm enjoying it?

maybe it's just meant to be.

we are what we are.

end of.

well if you ever get the help you need i wont say "i told you so" ok?

you dont think i`m talking from experience????