feeling more than just a little bit guilty right now.hopefully,it's just a phase....

the wife has her problems,
and she works.
this weekend she turned the downstairs upside down,
and everywhere sparkles.
she soldiers silently on.

as,
to some extent,
do i.

lardthing?
yeah.

i have SO much that i should be grateful for,
i KNOW that.
but i say that grudgingly.

i need someone,
to talk to.
to hold,
naked,
in bed.
i might be old,
but i'm not dead.
i need intimacy.

not just sex,
assuming that i'm still physically able,
it's more than that.

and if i found that with somebody else,
might i not want it?
is it simply a case of craving what i don't have?

oh i don't know.

i just hope that some really nice woman doesn't come along and mess things up.
my wife doesn't deserve that.
then i can see my life out feeling sorry for myself.
and no real harm done eh?

maybe,
hopefully,
it's just a phase.

erixter wrote:the wife has her problems,
and she works.
this weekend she turned the downstairs upside down,
and everywhere sparkles.
she soldiers silently on.

as,
to some extent,
do i.

lardthing?
yeah.

i have SO much that i should be grateful for,
i KNOW that.
but i say that grudgingly.

i need someone,
to talk to.
to hold,
naked,
in bed.
i might be old,
but i'm not dead.
i need intimacy.

not just sex,
assuming that i'm still physically able,
it's more than that.

and if i found that with somebody else,
might i not want it?
is it simply a case of craving what i don't have?

oh i don't know.

i just hope that some really nice woman doesn't come along and mess things up.
my wife doesn't deserve that.
then i can see my life out feeling sorry for myself.
and no real harm done eh?

maybe,
hopefully,
it's just a phase.

You need to communicate eric, talk to her and tell her your feelings. You both have needs its about give and take too.

boat,
i don't want to get intimate with the wife.
of course we had something once.
but that was then.
i don't want that with her now.

and as for canoodling,naked,with her.

and again,
do i really want that?
with anybody?

and nobody but a wrinkly old bugger like me,
would be interested in a wrinkly old bugger like me.

so?

maybe i just can't deal with having stopped doing sex at the age that i did.
but the past 10 or 15 yrs are history now.
you only get one shot at life,
and those yrs have gone .

i hoped that as i got older it wouldn't matter.
but it does.
and regrets?
well,
we've all got those.