im worried cus im not sure this is normal

earlier i wanted to stove my partners head in and he hadnt done anything wrong ,,he had been moaning about a bad back and a swollen face all day (cyst) so he didnt come to the cinema with me and my daughter he took painkillers and planned a lie down anyrate he was asleep when i got home , thank fuck, so i got a beer and was relaxing in front of the tv , a good film i might add 300 , then i dropped the remote which hit a plate and he woke up and started asking talking to me , it was that point i felt extreamly violent

missyj wrote:and he woke up and started asking talking to me

Any chance of you retyping that in English?

ffs , i changed my mind about what i was going to say and forgot to delete a word , i know you can figure that out , dont get all pendatic with me and just tell me if you have ever wanted to kill mrs cheese or is that what your avoiding

Mrs Cheese frequently wants to cave my skull in....I NEVER feel like it about her.

Nobby Cheese wrote:Mrs Cheese frequently wants to cave my skull in....I NEVER feel like it about her.

ahh i see shame i cant speak to mrs eric

You mean "pedantic".

(That's possibly the most well-crafted succinct wordplay of the year)

yeah i did

NotBert wrote:You mean "pedantic".

(That's possibly the most well-crafted succinct wordplay of the year)

Priceless

even i can't talk to mrs.eric.
you've got no chance.

mj,
for whatever reason,
rightly or wrongly,
you seem to be feeling neglected.

the cinema situation,
trivial?
maybe.
but it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

how you AND mr.mj deal with it,
maybe there's nothing to "deal with",
if in fact you want to,
feel able to,
or not.

and maybe one of you was just having a bad day.

and wtf do i know?

did you get layed last night?
is everything okay now?

if not,
get back up those stairs and give him a blowie,
right now.
never mind about your hair.
just do it.

and YES!
it matters.

sex can be such a great healer.

at least it used to be.
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and why mrs.eric?

your's is a happy home.

our's is a miserable one.

No I didn't feel neglected at all ,I didn't want him to come

menopause?

none of my business of course.

you really do need to talk to a woman.

what about mrs.cheese.

those fuckin chickens.

i wouldn't worry about it,
so long as it doesn't happen too often.

just put it down to a bad day.

ignore the blowie comment,
just stupid bloke-talk.

did you actually go off on one at him,
or seeth quietly?

erixter wrote:get back up those stairs and give him a blowie,
right now.

You probably have tolerated his annoyances for too long, its built up and up until you want to actually be violent towards him. My advice is that you both need to sit and talk more, you have to be open and tell him all your pet hates and him the same about you. Maintaining a good relationship is hard work. Think of it like a road or a path in-so-much-as it goes in both directions and it should not be you or him who has to do all the donkey work at keeping it alive and together. There's nothing wrong with a bit of "me" time, but don't let it turn into two separate lives.

i can vouch for that.

erixter wrote:i can vouch for that.

You need to move into a nice warm bed with sticky Eric.

not really boat.
tbh,
i'm so confused right now,
i really don't know WHAT i want.
but i DO know that sex isn't the answer.

like with that m.i.n.d. bllx,
i don't like how i am,
but i can't face change.
cos change is the unknown.

better the devil you know.

maybe.

i think that maybe i'd like to know somebody who i wanted to spend time with.

but i really don't that i could ever do that.

too selfish?
self-pitying?
mummy's boy?

who knows?

i'm like a shit-fly in a cow-barn.

i don't know where to settle.

erixter wrote:i think that maybe i'd like to know somebody who i wanted to spend time with.

but i really don't that i could ever do that.

too selfish?
self-pitying?
mummy's boy?

who knows?

i'm like a shit-fly in a cow-barn.

i don't know where to settle.

it aint no joke boatman.